“Resilience And The Incredible Power Of Slow Change”

August 13th, 2010

“The breaking news mindset isn’t just annoying, it may be distracting you from what really matters.” – Seth Godin

The wisdom of Seth Godin is so eye-opening, sometimes I just want to share it verbatim. And so I have below.

Seth’s post, dealing with the larger flows of society, provided a useful analogy (my thoughts - in italics) to the value of consistent small steps over time to move forward and de-emphasize current distractions.

“Most existing systems (organizations, cities, careers, governments) (people) are resilient to external shocks. If they weren’t, they wouldn’t still be here. Earthquakes, edicts and emergencies (ups and downs) come and they go, but the systems remain.

And yet, it’s the emergencies we pay attention to.

No single event demolished the music business (your reality or dreams). It was a series of slow changes over the course of two decades, all the way back to the CD.

Smoking (lack of exercise and overeating) killed far more people than terrorists ever did. It’s just not as dramatic.

No single technology (habit) destroyed the business model for newspapers. Sure, Craigslist (pick your poison) hastened their demise, but the writing has been on the wall for a decade or more.

Your career won’t be made or broken on the back of one interview (event or personal reaction), one meeting, one sales call. Sure, it might help (or hurt), but the sudden impact of one event (big promise) isn’t sufficient to change everything forever.

The slow changes in the media landscape (status-quo) are accelerating and virtually every pre-digital (existing) system is in danger. The slow changes in the marketing landscape (personal challenges and opportunities) are in their second decade (ongoing) and these changes will have their effects on every business (individual) and cause as well.

Cultural (small) shifts create long terms evolutionary changes. Cultural shifts, changes in habits, technologies that slowly obsolete a product or a system are the ones that change our lives. Watch for (guide your small) shifts in (personal) systems and processes and expectations. That’s what makes change, not big events.

Don’t worry about what happened yesterday (or five minutes ago). Focus on what happened ten years ago and think about what you can do that will make a huge impact in six months. The breaking news mindset isn’t just annoying, it may be distracting you from what really matters. As the world gets faster, it turns out that the glacial changes (small steps) of years and decades are become more important, not less.”

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Peace

July 12th, 2010

“Peace is not merely a distant goal that we seek, but a means by which we arrive at that goal.”
Martin Luther King, Jr.

Peace in front of you

Peace in back of you

Peace to the right

Peace to the left

Peace to those around you

Peace to the universe

May the steps of your life be in peace

And lead to peace…

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Finding 11 Steps To Re-Motivation

July 7th, 2010

“Ability is what you’re capable of doing.

Motivation determines what you do.

Attitude determines how well you do it.”

- Lou Holtz, legendary Notre Dame Football Coach


It’s ironic as I sit here and write this post about motivation. I’m not motivated.

It’s not that I don’t have something to say or want to share it, I do. But today I’m thinking about what I don’t have and feeling the opposite of motivated … blocked and discouraged.

Have you ever felt that way?

Imagine having the seeds of ability and attitude that might grow to more, but not having the energy to plant them. The action that is necessary is clear … but its course is cloudy.

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My, What A Big Steps Family You Have!

June 29th, 2010

How the hell are small steps enough to control and power your personal change?

While there are many answers to that question, please consider that small steps are not just small, they are in reality a big family of steps…

And like every family, they have different personalities, perspectives and capabilities.  There are favorite aunts, cool and crazy uncles, in-laws that make life easier or harder, and cousins galore that are available to help and play.

Just imagine they all have your back and offer different ways to make your steps work. It’s like having a picnic where every family member has a specialty to bring to the table.

Here are nine family members that will help…

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27 Small Steps To Tip Your Life Forward

June 23rd, 2010

Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of
fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the
ugly parts and recycling it for more than it’s worth.
– Baz Luhrmann

Now as I review nostalgically, there is a consistent thread, or threads, that seem worth recycling. A means and a method that gives you more control of your results, because step by step, it gives you more control of your change.

Warren Buffet described it this way: “I don’t look to jump over 7-foot bars: I look around for 1-foot bars that I can step over.”

My friend Kelly Mange’s grandfather said it this way: “It’s a cinch by the inch”

Just imagine, when you need energy, when you need a direction, and when you need to get going, there is something you can do.

It is in your control, right now, and you can use it to move forward.

It’s something small that could help you get and stay motivated.

Am I recycling it for more than it’s worth?

For your consideration, the following list is about recognizing and using the power of small steps. They have been found to be the universal components of movement. I’m sure I’m painting them over, but the ideas have stood the test of time…

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Fathering … Three Times The Contribution

June 20th, 2010

Today is Father’s Day in The United States…

Three cheers! A day to celebrate US fathers.

There are different days, in different parts of the world, that do much the same.

Recognizing fathers – all those men or women who provide fathering – is an opportunity to say thank you.

And a chance to model ourselves on the best of what we see.

To our biological fathers… without you our lives wouldn’t exist. Thank you.

To our nurturing fathers…the love, care and protection you provided gave us paths to follow and steps to take. Thank you.

To our universal father (no religion intended)…what you have given us is life, and the steps to follow towards the top of the stairs. Thank you.

To all of you doing fathering, seen or unseen. I wish you a happy Fathers Day.

Your contributions are appreciated – one step, one father, at a time

Have fun,

Jim

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That’s It … I’m Gonna Make Something Happen!

June 19th, 2010

There’s that moment…

You’ve had enough.

You’ve gotten everyone’s opinion. You’ve thought about it from all sides. You’ve been held back, and you’ve held yourself back. Yet, it’s important to you, it will improve your day, your week or your life.

When will the time be right? Why isn’t it happening?

Enough already.

It’s time to make something happen!  It’s a “damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead” moment.

You’re ready.

Wherever you are, whatever you’re thinking, when that moment finally strikes you – you’re gonna make something happen.

Sometimes you have to fire several torpedoes, yet in each moment the future begins.

You’ll find the moment-um – one step at a time.

How has that moment happened for you?

What are your secrets of using it?

If you would like, if the moment is right, please add your comments to make something happen.

Seriously (what happened to Have fun?),

Jim

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Steps To Lasting Friendship

June 18th, 2010

Today, I received an email from Farnoosh at Prolific Living.

It got me thinking and seeing…

If you haven’t met Farnoosh, let me introduce her. She shines light on subjects about, well, about prolific living. Telling stories, making connections and sharing feelings.

Today her post was about 36 Lessons on Building Lasting Friendships

The lesson began with a beautiful quote by Baz Luhrmann and went on to list perspectives of lasting friendships.

Take a look. I imagine you’ll recognize them, and some that have been very important to you.

You’ll see mention of the ebb and flow of friendships. For me that has certainly been true, usually based on changing locations, involvements and perspectives.

Yet I see a common core in the friends that have lasted decades…

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Your Questions. It’s Obvious. Or Is It?

June 17th, 2010

Here are six questions for you…

Are they straight-forward and easy or are they more complex?

It obviously depends on how you see them:

  1. What 4 words appear on every denomination of U.S. coins?
  2. How many four cent stamps in a dozen?
  3. Some months have 30 days, some months have 31, how many have 28 days?
  4. Is it legal in the United States for a man to marry his widow’s sister?
  5. How far can a dog run into the woods?
  6. You take two apples from three apples and what would you have?

(The answers are at the bottom of the page :) )

You know the power of questions? Right?

All answers come from questions.

Questions are good beginning steps, steps along the way and steps to evaluate endings.

Pretty simple. Or is it?

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Small Step To Physical Health

June 16th, 2010

Our bodies carry us through life.

When they work well, other parts of life are easier.

When they are out of shape, in pain or broken, it’s more difficult (to say the least).

From the simple to the challenging there are programs, diets, exercises and systems each individual may need to consider.

If you’ve found what works for you, great.

The progress of small steps to physical health also benefits from an overview and begins with gratitude…

Be thankful, in you own way, that you were provided a body.

Then, in that moment…

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